runner problems · Running · Training · weight lifting

My First Post Using My HTML Skills

My First HTML Post

My Blog

So I am really enjoying being able to practice code on this blog. I think the HTML part is fairly easy, especially since it has the link and image code built in. I want to practice all day and all night with this website. Wow I’m really impressed with myself that I can do this. I know CSS is going to be harder but I can do it. I just need to take it a little bit at a time.


This is the best site IMO to learn code. It walks you through it step by step and it even lets you take quizzes which will test your understanding as you complete the sections. I scored a 66% on my first quiz, which isn’t bad for a beginner.


I know WordPress offers editing of users’ HTML and CSS codes as well, but I find it is easier to do on Blogger. I think on WordPress you have to have a paid account in order to be able to edit your code. On Blogger (here) you can do it for free.

Thanks for reading my post. I am slowly starting to get the hang of this. I had fun making this post. The more practice, the better. #CodeOn

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Alcoholism · Body Image Issues · Health · Sobriety · Uncategorized · Weight loss

Body Image Issues


When a person starts drinking heavily,  they start to gain weight, mostly in the abdomen area. And for women, this can create some really uncomfortable body image issues, especially if they already have low self esteem.

This is what happened to me after I started drinking excessively. I was having a really hard time with narcissistic family members who were so disrespectful and childish to me. It made me feel like I wasn’t worthy to be part of my husband’s family. I felt self-conscious and would feel hurt if someone was laughing behind my back (which happened a lot).  So every night, we put a bottle of wine out of its misery. It was a ritual; one that we dare not break for fear of the dreaded DT’s. “What harm could it do?” we thought, as we poured another glass. “We’re not driving or operating heavy machinery.”

Harm. It did some harm, all right. To my waistline, my self esteem, my moods, and the way I reacted to the negative energy around me.

It did a lot of harm.

To everything I loved, including my fit and healthy lifestyle.

It was battle of the bulge, and I was losing. Wine: 1. Emily: 0.

This went on until I realized that no matter how much I exercised, I was not burning the fat in my ever-expanding belly, thighs, and butt. It just wasn’t possible unless I benched 250 everyday for months. And that simply isn’t possible. I think I can dead-lift 30 pounds at the most.

I kept running and I would do squats and other body weight exercises occasionally, but it was futile; I had some strength in my legs from running, but that was it. The pounds just kept coming.

And so did the negative energy. It’s not easy being a very small, shy girl in this decade. People are hurtful. Unless you look like Kate Upton or Kim K, they pretty much dismiss you as trash, and I was dismissed all right. Tossed aside with ugly words and dirty looks. I’ve always been funny looking, but alcohol made me look a lot worse.


I coped with crying and burying myself under the covers; and alcohol. So much alcohol. It was a vicious circle. The more depressed I got, the more I drank.

And from all this foolishness, I gained 20 pounds; but I’m trading in those pounds for self esteem, self care, happiness, joy, and a healthy, fit body. The body I used to have. The body that could run for miles like a tiger. That’s the body I want, and the body I deserve.


Body image issues don’t have to be a part of our lives forever. I believe that if we forgive ourselves for doing things to our bodies that aren’t healthy or are harmful, then we can begin the healing process. We also need to forgive those who have hurt us; not because they deserve it, but because it will help us to heal from the pain. No one likes to be called fat, ugly or worse; but forgiveness is the critical first step in moving on.


Loving ourselves is so important too. It may seem impossible now (believe me, I’ve been there), but loving ourselves in a healthy way is job one. Self-care is a way to love yourself; shave your legs, go for a walk, and put healthy food into your body. Those simple steps are a way to show yourself love.


Changing our mindset. Oh, how important this is. I had to do it straight away because my original mindset was “I’m not worthy, and I can’t do anything right.” Now my mindset is “I’m created in His image, and God loved me so much that He gave His son for me.” Genesis 1:27, John 3:16. Changing our mindset can also be about replacing negative thoughts that bombard our minds with good thoughts. Cast out the negative, wicked, and depressing thoughts, and replace them with good ones. Write them down and read them aloud to yourself. It will improve your mood and help you climb out of the rut of a negative mindset.


Exercise. This is a no-brainer for someone like me who is into running, weight lifting, and other outdoor activities. But when someone is depressed or hungover (or both), who wants to exercise? I get that, yet it’s so important to keep the body moving. Endorphins make us feel good, and that’s a great pick-me-up for someone with body image issues.


These are just a few of the things (in addition to God’s Word) that I’m applying to my life to climb out of the rut and live a healthier, happier life. I know it’s hard to live with the body image issues that come with alcohol abuse; it’s one of the things I hate most about it. But there is hope, and there is a healthier happier ‘me’ on the other side of the spectrum. I just need to go after her.


Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Rm 12:2 Taken from 15 Positive Body Image Bible Verses, via Marie Osborne.

Body Image Activities from A Year Without Mirrors

The Struggle to be Skinny: What Does God Have to Say About It? From RockT.his


Everything I have written in this post is strictly my opinion. I am neither getting paid or endorsing a product or website. I am simply sharing my experience and what has worked for me in my current situation. Also, I am not offering medical advice or recommending that someone exchange professional advice for what I am offering here.









Alcoholism · Health · Running · Sobriety · Weight loss

Happy Good (Sober) Friday

Red Glass Alcohol Spill Red Wine Liqueur Spot

Happy Good (Sober) Friday to everyone. It’s a great day for me. I am cutting back on my drinking, and it’s exciting to finally have a handle on something that was a succubus in our lives.

Alcohol is one of those things that is supposed to make normal things ‘fun;’ parties, dances, sporting events, you name it. But the more you drink, the less fun your life becomes. In fact, it can turn into a real train wreck. Your health is affected, and your behavior changes dramatically. What was once a sweet, shy little lady who loved the Lord and enjoyed peaceful evenings in front of the TV is now a hateful, angry, loudmouth who isn’t happy unless she gets her way.

The bottles fill up the recycling bin, which is of course embarrassing, but the cravings are so fierce that the need for another drink trumps the embarrassment.

Life becomes a real ordeal; friendships are destroyed, and other relationships are tarnished because of the habit. It’s never a good scenario, and it doesn’t have a happy ending until someone gains control of their habit. Which is what I did. I decided enough is enough. It’s time for me to gain control of my drinking and say ‘yes’ to a happy, fulfilled, blessed life in the Lord. So here’s what I did:

Red wine is my drink of choice, so I decided to cut down to one glass a night. Just one (actually, two 4-ounce glasses with dinner) and nothing else. Last night was my first night, and today I feel amazing. I am so thankful that God has answered my prayer and has helped me curb my excessive drinking habit.

I finally feel in control, and I know my health will benefit greatly because of it. I am ready to tackle things that were too hard for me before like weight training, losing weight, and getting in shape. I’m excited about what God is going to do in my life now. The possibilities are endless.


If you or someone you love has an alcohol problem, I urge you to pray and ask that the habit be broken by God’s healing grace. However, most people who are excessive drinkers need professional help. I urge you or your loved one(s) to seek this help, because it is the safest, and most effective way to break the addiction. I will have resources available at the end of this post.

Even though being sober means cutting out alcohol 100%, I decided it was best for me to cut back for now; that way I don’t feel deprived. I’m drinking wine the way I used to: slowly and gracefully. So I can still enjoy the taste and not have to worry about cravings when my husband is also having a glass of wine or a beer.

We also have whiskey and vodka in the house; but I’m less likely to overindulge in those, thank God. Maybe this weekend I’ll have a shot with my husband while watching a game. I learned the hard way that I can’t drink wine and then have a strong drink: it makes me crazy. So it’s either one or the other. Since I am cutting back anyway, that seems like a good idea to me.

I’m so thankful to God for His healing grace and love. He has been so patient with me through the difficulties, the pain, the shame, and the body image issues (I’ve put on 20+ pounds thanks to this habit), and I’m ready to give my all to Him so He can heal my body from the inside out.

The body is affected greatly by alcohol; and all of them lead to health problems. Here is an article that I read yesterday online about how excessive drinking affects every area of the body. It was a real eye opener. I’ve experienced a few of these and it’s not fun. I’m praying some of the damage will be reversed as I begin to take better care of my body with vitamins, nutritious food, exercise, and medical care.

Easter is going to be a special weekend for me indeed, because I’ll be sober enough to enjoy it. It’s going to just be the two of us, so no church functions, but we’ll get out and enjoy the fresh air and God’s creation. I’m looking forward to it, and I feel so blessed to have this new leash on life.

Alcohol abuse is a real thing; and it requires medical care if someone has been an alcoholic for a long time. It’s a disease. And if you or your loved one is struggling with alcoholism, I urge them to seek help right away. Here are some resources for you, and I pray that it is helpful to you.

Schick-Shadel Hospital in Seattle

National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism

Find The Best Rehab For You

Top 10 Rehab Centers


This post is purely personal experience and opinion. I am not a professional, nor do I claim to present myself as such. The information herein is completely taken from my point of view, and is not intended to replace professional medical advice.

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Just Be.


It’s ironic that I posted this as my status on Facebook a few days ago, but when it comes to maintaining this blog, I can’t ‘just be.’ I can’t simply enjoy the journey of blogging, writing content, and having fun. Instead I’m spinning my wheels trying to learn all I can about affiliate marketing, monetizing my site, and promoting my site. I’m like Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hyde. One minute I’m in my zen mode, completely entranced in a relaxing yoga pose. Then the next minute I’m like an anxious hamster that can’t get off the wheel of trying to make things happen that aren’t meant to happen…yet.

I understand that I’m new to blogging and promoting content; I have a lot to learn. So many questions are left unanswered. Until those answers are found, I should just sit back and enjoy my blog. Write, upload photos, and share things I’m passionate about; but leave the more complicated things on the back burner…for now.

Many blogs fail within the first few months, and I don’t want to be on that continuum. Nobody wants to be a statistic; and nobody wants to see their blog fall down the black hole of the delete button. I can make this blog work, I just have to find its purpose, and its mission. This blog is in its infancy, and it’s not ready for solid food.

Solid food for an infant blog may consist of affiliate marketing, shared hosting services, buying a domain, and building links. And like my blog, I’m not ready to invest in things I’m too young and naive to digest; things like investing in my blog, buying a WordPress theme, and paying for things that I normally use for free.

I’ve never paid to edit or enhance a photo; those apps have always been available to me for free. But pro bloggers use PicMonkey to create and edit beautiful photos that drive traffic to their site..for a fee. I know I’m not ready for that level of professionalism, so it falls under the category of ‘baby food.’

This little baby blog doesn’t have the traffic yet to make investing money into my blog worth it; doing that would fall under the category of stupid. Because to be honest, I may never get a lot of traffic, and that’s OK. I have accepted that, and I will continue to use this blog to be an outlet for my daily runs, thoughts, training victories and defeats and other notes about my crazy life. Not everybody is going to want to read that; and I can live with that. I won’t lose sleep over it.

So why do I keep jumping on the hamster wheel of anxiety? It’s a bad habit of mine to keep doing things that are way ahead of their time. When it comes to success, I don’t want to read the introduction; I want to get to the ending straight away without doing actual work. It’s a character flaw; and I admit it. Just like I admit that my writing isn’t optimal for driving traffic to my site. I know very little about SEO, and ignorance is not bliss in this case. Yet I keep trying to read the ending  before reading the whole book.

I should definitely go find a yoga mat and get into my best Lotus pose. Inhale deeply, letting the breath I take bring peace and tranquility to my entire being. Because after all, if it’s meant to be for me to make money on my site, then it will happen. But for now I just need to namaste.

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Running · Training

Going From 60 to 0: Running on Tired Legs


Running on tired legs is not ideal. Ask any runner and they’ll tell you that it’s nearly impossible to run effectively on very little sleep. Yet, that’s what I did this morning and it didn’t go as well as I would have liked.

I woke up this morning about 4:00 AM, and I couldn’t go back to sleep. So I decided it was time to get up for the day (I usually get up 3 – 4 hours later than this). I headed out for my run after my husband left for work, and my body was dragging. My legs felt heavy and I had virtually no energy. I had to take walk breaks a lot.

The weather was cloudy and cool, with overcast skies. The temperature about in the 40s, which would have been perfect if my energy levels were higher and I could actually feel like I was doing something.

I chose an out-and-back route, and ran a mile in each direction. And even though the course was flat, I still had to walk every 0.01-0.10 of a mile. It was brutal. All I wanted to do was get home and take a nice hot bath, which I did.

No amount of coffee today has been able to help me regain my energy, so I’ve been doing research online concerning some things I’d like to pursue. Life slowed down for me today, which is helpful because I can’t give my 100%.

Even though I feel like I’ve gone from 60 to 0, I will have a nice, nutritious meal with my husband when he gets home, and that will help me to refuel. Plus, I’ve got some things in the works for days where I can’t run, and I’m excited about that. So stay tuned. (:

Proven Energy Boosters for Runners.

Here’s a few of my favorite energy boosters that are great for refueling, hitting the wall, or just rewarding yourself for a job well done.

5 Hour Energy Drink Shot, Berry, 12 Count

5 Hour Energy is a great way to get an instant boost of energy while on the go. They come in a variety of flavors and give the body a hit of caffeine and B vitamins, with no added sugar. I like to drink these when I need an extra boost and I’m away from home. It’s too bad I didn’t have any on hand this morning; I could have really used one.

Honey Stinger Organic Energy Chews, Fruit Smoothie, 1.8 Ounce (Pack of 12)

Honey stinger chews come in a variety of flavors, but their most popular flavor–the fruit smoothie–is delicious and offers a delicious combo of mixed berry, cherry, and orange. They combine multiple carbohydrates for energy (sucrose, fructose, maltose, and glucose) to keep you energized during your run or other fitness activity.

Always good to have these on hand, especially when you’re feeling sleep deprived, you have a big race coming, or you just need a little help getting the legs moving. I like to carry these in my pocket when I know I’m going to hit the wall later on.

Clif Bar 12 Bar Variety Pack, 1 Bar of each Flavor

I love nothing more than eating a Clif Bar right after a long run. The chewy texture with the delicious flavor is like sweet victory. And there are so many flavors to love, that I can’t pick just one, so I like the variety pack.

Clif Bars are great to nibble on when I’m going for a really long run, or if I’m hiking with my husband and I happen to crave something sweet. They are certified organic too, so I can feel good about what I’m eating while on the go.

What are your favorite go-to energy boosters?

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Playlists · Running · Training

20 Songs Perfect For Your Long Run


Are you ready for your long run this weekend? If not, turn on some music and get your adrenaline going. Or, pick some songs from my playlist that I’ve put together just for you.

These are just a few songs that I like to jam to when I’m running, especially if my run is going to be longer than 10 miles. I believe these 20 songs are perfect for your next long run!

U R a Fever ~ The Kills

Danger Zone ~ Kenny Loggins

Right Now~ Van Halen

Light Em Up ~ Fall Out Boy

Freedom ’90~ George Michael

John Mellancamp ~ Wild Night

Holiday ~ Green Day

Pour Some Sugar on Me~ Def Leppard

Can’t Get You Off My Mind~ Lenny Kravitz

Nicki Minaj ~ Super Bass

Thunderstruck~ AC/DC

Uma Thurman~Fall Out Boy


Side to Side~Ariana Grande ft. Nicki Minaj

Learning to Fly~Pink Floyd

Runaway Train~Soul Asylum

You Spin Me Around~Dead or Alive

Two Princes~ Spin Doctors

Bye Bye Bye~NSYNC

Download a few new songs to your phone and let me know what you think. Which ones were your favorite?


Running · Training · Uncategorized · Weight loss

Running Past The Finish Line


Excuses, Excuses

For the past few years I’ve wanted to run a marathon, but I wasn’t prepared to put in the work. The long, difficult training seemed to be too daunting for someone at my age, who is passed her prime and who is carrying a few extra pounds. I also deal with ankle pain from time to time, thanks to a serious bicycle accident 3 years ago. But these are all just excuses. Excuses that I let take root in my mind. The roots of these excuses permeated my thinking, and crowded out any motivation that I had to continue training for the marathon. The roots dug deep into my psyche, allowing no room for progression or success.

Running I Shall: Train I Shall Not

I did continue to run, but train I did not. I would start a program, and then stop. I did this multiple times; and once you make the same mistakes over and over again, it becomes a decision. I decided that a marathon wasn’t for me. The tree began getting stronger, and the roots embedded themselves deep into my brain; the excuses became decisions, reasons, and alibis.

Then one day something clicked.

The reason my body wasn’t ready to train for a marathon was because it wasn’t strong enough. After my bicycle accident in 2014, I started running very slowly until I could run 10 miles comfortably. I got back on the bike and enjoyed hiking with my husband. But I did virtually no strength training. And my running suffered for it.

No More Running For Me!

Fast forward to 2017, and my thin, lean body became a study in fat collection. I put on 20 pounds, and most of it rested in my gut. It made it very difficult to run, and I basically gave up in March of this year. “No more running for me,” I said. “I’m done–now I just lift weights.” When I made this announcement, I pictured my Facebook friends looking at their phones and rolling their eyes, because they knew I was full of it. They knew I would return to running.

And by golly, they were right!

I just finished a nice, relaxing 4 mile run, and the endorphins are flying all over the place. I feel great, and I’m excited about my training plan that I am now following. I’m determined to see this thing through because I’m not getting any younger (I’m now part of the over 40 crowd), and it’s either now or never. My only regret is that I didn’t do this sooner. That I let the excuses take over my mind and crowd out the reality that I do love running, and I always will.

Run Past The Finish Line

I know that once I run past that finish line, all the hard work will be worth it. I will have achieved a goal, and it will feel awesome. There’s no try: lace up, show up, and go!

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